Nanny Alice, what will you do if you find my hands down my nappy?

That all depends on how and why your hands are there!  I am not prudish.  If you are having a sneaky touch without making it too obvious (though nanny will know as she has 'eyes in the back of her head) I may just ignore it. As it is, I have a degree in psychology and have worked as a psychotherapist. I do not want you to acquire complexes!. But, if I feel you are being blatant, disrespectful and/or attention seeking in a negative way... trying to push my personal boundaries, I may tell you off and/or give you a good hiding.  Every situation is unique, you are unique.  Each encounter is different.